Dear Infamous,
Sorry about your grief. I had as many as 15 cats and 3 dogs at one time. Lost all 3 dogs in the same year. Our favorite cat, Ted, we couldn't save because the vet needed $800! Was really sad. Condolences to you.
CoCo
this is the guy that sat on my razor blades the one time i was thinking of cutting myself... this is the guy that everytime my dad beat me, would come to my room and lay with me... this is the guy that one time jumped into the bathtub with me while i was crying after a brutal beating, the cat hated water... this is a cat that was more family to me than my own father and mother combined... this was my best friend... .
today i had to do the hardest thing i ever did, i had to choose to have him put down... and as he fought the vet, and tried to bite her, i put my hand on his head, and he stopped struggling... and as they put the last needle into his leg, he purred until he died... the vet says she has never seen that before... this was my best friend and i had to kill him... fuck, im a baby, but i miss him soooo much.
the infamous one.
Dear Infamous,
Sorry about your grief. I had as many as 15 cats and 3 dogs at one time. Lost all 3 dogs in the same year. Our favorite cat, Ted, we couldn't save because the vet needed $800! Was really sad. Condolences to you.
CoCo
latitudinarian, a. liberal in one's views; permitting free thought, especially in religious matters; very tolerant of the differing opinions of others; as, "latitudinarian" opinions or doctrines.
[emphasis added].
dear friends of liberal persuasion,.
Latitudinarian, a. liberal in one's views; permitting free thought, especially in RELIGIOUS matters; very tolerant of the differing opinions of others; as, "latitudinarian" opinions or DOCTRINES. [emphasis added]
Dear Friends of Liberal Persuasion,
Now, we are all so diverse in thought and belief, yet the majority of us were once "united in word and deed, serving shoulder to shoulder in...." Sorry, a throwback to my idealistic youth. Now released from captivity to relentless rules and regulations and false religious doctrine, do you find that your more liberal outlook is taking you where you want to go? I really need to know! (please)
In unity, not uniformity,
CoCo
does anyone know if this has happened in any 1st world countries?
Regarding $3000 "worth" of literature------I found it!
The Free Minds Journal, vol. 20, no. 2, Apr/Jun 2001, p.7, 8
Why Is It Now So Hard to Obtain Watchtower subscriptions, books and CD-roms?---an alarming shift toward greed
Major Deception to the Average Witness
"If the congregation does not submit enough money to cover the value of the books or other materials, they [Society] will actually bill the local congregations for the difference, and if they don't submit the difference, Brooklyn will CUT OFF all literature to that Kingdom Hall."
Brother Rolando R., literature servant formerly of Jersey City West Congregation, writes: "[the Society] noticed an enormous increase in literature orders. The congregation had made purchases of some $3000.00 and our donations were only somewhere around $500.00. They told us that we [the congregation] owed the Society $2300.00." [sic; actually $2500.00-see below]
There was no mention in this letter to Randy about being cut off; however, the congregation received two letters in one envelope from Brooklyn. One apprised the BOE of the balance due, the other, addressed to the congregation, stated that the Society was doing a great work and support was needed! Br. R.R. hence announced to the congregation that they were making a $2500.00 donation to the WWW. [the bad WWW!]
It was fun going through all my FMJs!
Compound-Complex
first it was her mum in hospital, then it was me, just for a night, though i've been ordered to rest and given 6 weeks off work, and now linda (fullofdoubtnow) is ill. she has a really bad bout of flu, which started yesterday, and i expect she'll be in bed for a few days.
i just fed her some soup, which is about all she can manage at the moment, and she's gone back to sleep now.
she sends her love to everyone on the board,i expect she will be posting again in a few days, but for now, she's confined to bed..
Dear Ded & Full,
So sorry for all that you and yours have suffered recently! I once thanked Linda for her encouraging words when I was a new Newbie, but, ah, what the heck! Another HUGE thank you, Linda! I was treading uncertain waters here when new, and Linda reassured me all was truly well and I'd be OK. And you know what? I am OK!
Blessings and love and peace,
CoCo Cares
comments you will not hear at the 11-26-06 wt study (october 15, 2006, pages 18-23)(honorable weddings).
review comments will be in red.
quotes from other sources will be in quotes boxes.
Dear Blondie,
I hope your ear pain has subsided; it's one of the worst pains imaginable!
I can relate to comments made by HadEnuf. I will not use relevant detail to describe a formal "gathering" that I recently attended (out of respect to propriety and the innocent attendees). But to paint a picture with broad strokes, suffice it to say, I had to do the "Joseph Thing" to avoid becoming disrobed. Those who observed what one was aggressively doing to me screamed with laughter. All very public. No repercussions, no questions from elders. I'm no prude but I never employ sexual innuendo nor in any way disrespect the fairer sex. I still cannot believe that this happened.
Badly Shaken,
Compound-Complex
i noticed that we have a lot of new lurkers here - and, in particular, some elders who are agonizing over how to get free.
from the watchtower without causing too much damage to themselves.
here are some suggestions that have worked.
Dearly Departed,
I think I clicked onto this thread from another site and now I'm replying. Like many others, I am in the non-Catholic version of Limbo; I guess we have our own peculiar variety. Betwixt Heaven and Hell. Said too much, but didn't say enough. Almost got caught, but wheedled our way out of a tight spot. It worked for David-he feigned insanity. Except I have no beard to drool onto.
Ironic that at the last CO's visit I attended he proudly stated that there were NO irregular publishers in the congregation. He crowed over that dubious measuring rod of our congregation's superior standing. Making points with you know who (certainly not Jehovah). Well, he certainly did not see my card! No time reported for 11 months now. After six months of no meeting attendance, I have yet to receive a single phone call or inquiry from any of the "company officials". I think they leave me alone because I was "the mouse that roared". And my many active family members are dearly loved and highly respected in the congregation; maybe I'm benefiting from "family merit"!
I am in exile, but like many of you, I am at peace. Peace-that precious commodity that has eluded me my entire life till now, here at JWD. This is as good as it gets.
Love and peace and gratitude,
CoCo
devil's advocate.
in the roman catholic church, where the term had its origin, "the devil's advocate" is one appointed to present the arguments against a proposed canonization as a saint.
he is, indeed, therefore, as fowler insists, "the blackener of the good" rather than "the whitewasher of the wicked.
Dear Friends,
Thank you for your comments. This dictionary was published in 1957, and certainly alterations-"new light"-in our extraordinary language have occurred. Kindly note the reiteration of the concluding words of the quotation from "Devil's Advocate"; the original meaning, long forgotten, has been replaced with a different meaning that has been
"so used so long that these meanings MUST BE ACCEPTED AS STANDARD."
This work seeks to note differences between formal and informal English (distinguishing between American and British usage) and to explain what has become accepted through long and determined usage, BECOMING standard English.
Lexicographically yours,
Compound-Complex
does anyone know if this has happened in any 1st world countries?
On Wolfgirl's thread "The Truth About the Donation Arrangement":
Gill comments on the suspension of future literature deliveries if payment is not made to the Society. My original post re the $3000 was when the new arrangement began and publishers went on a book-ordering spree, as I recall it. The Society continues to attach a $-value to the literature. So the $500 the congregation sent was, in their estimation, a fair donation. I'm still looking for that specific article; it could be at the link I gave you earlier. I didn't have time to seek it out.
Seek and you shall find,
Compound-Complex
C
does anyone know if this has happened in any 1st world countries?
Do Individual JWs Pay for the Literature They Distribute?
www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/113002/1.ashx
This is a start. I'm still looking--------CoCo
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is there a letter to the boe that stated that if an elder confessed to having committed a serious sin a number of years ago, (three years or so) and nobody knew about it, he need not be removed?
Hello Masterji,
Naturally it is best to have the printed word in hand to prove a point. I do not. But I have thought back over the years to various articles and key words and phrases that stuck in my noggin. I am absolutely certain of the key words (almost verbatim): 'this type of sin'...'three years'...'minimum'...'before reinstatement'. I am fairly certain of two points: 1) it was a major WT article, and 2) it referenced sexual sins. If you ever saw THE LIST OF ADRIAN MESSENGER, with George C. Scott, you will understand the method of recall of which I speak. I hope this is somewhat on track.
Yours truly,
Compound-Complex